Where are all the simps?
- Jan 8
- 2 min read
Not the psycho / stalker / booktok ones, who don't understand & respect boundaries. A good simp, the best simp is one who follows your rules, unlike Rolph from Bonding on Netflix. I'm not looking for the simps who suffer (& endure) without reward. The deeply pathetic humiliation isn't what I'm into; I had a guy block me because I wouldn't pee on him. Anyway, simps who work hard for their doms deserve special treatment. And when the simps cross a line (or misbehave), they deserve punishment (or banishment). For those who don't know, a simp is a person who gives their attention & affection to their desired person, dom, paramore, partner, etc, usually in a desperate, pleading manner. Catering to their paramore's whims, financing the paramore's lifestyle, listening to their paramore's thoughts & feelings, stuff like that is true simp behavior.
And yes, there is a gradient of simp-ish activities that can be harmful to everyone involved, directly or indirectly. Every healthy, consenting adult should be taking proper care of themselves emotionally & physically, even before considering their relationships to others. I've been told by my dom at the time to stay hydrated, get rest, eat, etc., because as my dom, he took the responsibility on himself to care for me even when I elect to submit to him. When he took care of me, it helped me overthink way less & focus on what's significant to me in the moment: pleasure. Have you had an orgasm without touching yourself before? Because I have. Messy. But like the orgasm, the responsibility of my care, my pleasure, my voice, my energy is mine. All mine. It is the first & only part of the world you ever own. Truly, love & respect it all.
I have an OnlyFans now because the simps are in the wings lurking & admittedly, I get satisfaction in connecting with & pleasing people. The feeling is powerful & alluring to me. I know that sounds like a villain mantra, but it comes from a genuine, kindhearted place. My favorite simp behaviors are massaging my feet & ankles, supporting my goals & dreams, & doing research on my hobbies. Seemingly innocuous & harmless. I also don't mind stepping on a simp, flogging a simp, & edging a simp until they lose their mind. I've had a few who've cried deeply because they feel safe & cared for by me. More forgotten names. I do enjoy sad, emo boys; they are so heartbreaking when they cry. It's lovely. And I want more people (especially men+) to be honest when addressing their feelings & thoughts. Be brave enough to love & accept yourself first.
Now, do you wanna be my simp?
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